The Reset Framework Every Woman Needs After Loss
Episode Summary
After divorce, grief, career collapse, or major life shifts, many women try to “get back” to who they used to be. But what if the old version of you is not meant to be reclaimed?
In this deeply personal and strategic episode, Dr. Chonta Haynes shares her own journey through divorce after nearly 30 years of marriage, the devastating loss of her daughter Jasmine, career reinvention, and financial rebuilding. She introduces the Three-Part Life Reset framework:
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Identity Reset – You are not broken, you are becoming
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Faith Reset – Faith is not just comfort, it is direction
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Financial Reset – Stewardship restores confidence
This is not about surviving transition. It is about rising wiser, stronger, and aligned — crowned, not cautious.
Scriptures Referenced
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Isaiah 43:18–19
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Proverbs 3:5–6
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Luke 16:10
Who This Episode Is For
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Women navigating divorce
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Women grieving loss
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Women facing financial uncertainty
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Women rebuilding confidence after transition
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Women ready to stop healing alone
0:12 – Stop Trying to Go Back: You Are Becoming
0:59 – Why Confidence Doesn’t Automatically Return After Pain
1:59 – My Story: Divorce, Loss, and Reinvention
5:43 – Reset #1: Identity – You Are Not Broken, You Are Becoming
10:53 – Reset #2: Faith – From Comfort to Direction
18:54 – Reset #3: Finances – Peace Requires Alignment
23:43 – Why You Cannot Heal in Isolation
25:02 – My Sister’s Place: A Home for Healing and Growth
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